Tommy/Seymour |Aroace| he/him. I'm very queer and very autistic.
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dni: terfs, transmeds, exclusionists, anti-mogai, the usual.
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I can’t tell you how frustrating it is to have been in the queer movement for 20+ years, to have studied queer theory, to have contributed to you potentially enjoying the rights you have today because I was part of a groundswell of lobbying and direct action in the 1990s….
…to have a 15 year old who’s spent maybe 8 months being political and has never inquired about queer history anonymously message me, “EXCUSE ME QU**R IS A SLUR LMAO OMG EMBARRASSSING AN aCTUAL ADULT WHO THINKS IT’S OKAY TO USE QU**R!~!!!!”
Dude, we are a slur. Queer folks are a slur to conservative straight people. Everything we are will be used as a slur by everyone who hates us. Gay is a slur. Lesbian is a slur. People will try to use all of our words against us. Don’t fucking let them get into your head to the point at which you’re telling actual queer people not to use the words we’ve used to unite ourselves and empower ourselves for decades.
‘let people identify in whatever way works best for them, TRUST people to know themselves, respect self-knowledge and personal freedom’
to this fucking cretinous
‘you’re only allowed a very small selection of IDs because the rest are ~cringe~ and we need to make ourselves look Good and Acceptable for the Precious Majority Population’
